Once you have your baby, there is no time left for you and your mate. If you are a new dad then you will probably lost all track of time balancing work and baby. If you are a new mom then you will have to spend your entire day taking care of the baby. This way your relationship with your spouse will become secondary as the baby will be your first priority. That is why you have to be creative to take some special time out for both of you. All you need to do is to manage your time well.