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#1 Posted : Friday, January 25, 2013 2:49:52 PM(UTC)

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If we tell children don't do this they are promted to do that but is ok to create a fear in child obout the thing we don't want them to do. for example if the child keeps hand or puts something ot the electric holes if we tell that there is fire her and show some dummy exmple some child put hand here and hand is burnt?Is it ok to lie like this ? Even for using moblibe phone also i told him the same he plays with mobile a lot he knows everything in it ? for this also i told him hand will be burned with the radiation? is it gud to tell like this to a 2.8 yrs child.
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#2 Posted : Friday, January 25, 2013 3:14:41 PM(UTC)

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Hello,

What is the age of your child?

It is very important to keep your children safe, if he is of age when he can understand all the risks, but can not operate it properly, and still wants to go for such things you will have to find some tricks, as you are doing.

No need to feel guilty to keep your child safe.

Another way you can try is sit with him, explain the real risk, it will be better for both of you.

It is always better to keep kids scared from really scary things... if he will enter his tiny fingers in the whole of electric plug, he actually can get hurt badly.

And if your child is of age when he should learn the use of thing like electric switch or mobile, then it will be wrong way to deal with your child.

You need to explain your child about the use of certain things along with the safety measures.

Understand your child is growing at every minute, so let him satisfy his curiosity about learning new things.

All you need to take care is his safety ask him to go for such things in your presence, infect you yourself can stand with him and teach how to operate such things, this way he will understand in better way, will feel satisfy and risk can be avoided too.
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If we tell children don't do this they are promted to do that but is ok to create a fear in child obout the thing we don't want them to do. for example if the child keeps hand or puts something ot the electric holes if we tell that there is fire her and show some dummy exmple some child put hand here and hand is burnt?Is it ok to lie like this ? Even for using moblibe phone also i told him the same he plays with mobile a lot he knows everything in it ? for this also i told him hand will be burned with the radiation? is it gud to tell like this to a 2.8 yrs child....

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